Admittedly, my bridesmaids have more to do than the normal bridal party. Even though I've made my peace with being a solo bride, the girls had to make their peace, too. They've done so without even a word of complaint (not to me, anyway ;) ) and I am forever grateful. They're awesome.
| personal photo | Awesomeness on display: with Bridesmaids Y (left) and Blackout (right) on my birthday last year |
But they aren't the sole embodiments of Awesomeness in the wedding party, folks. The guys are pretty fabulous, too.
I think, for some couples, there's a clear division: the groomsmen are left up to the groom and the bridesmaids are left up to the bride. Easy peasy, you know? It wasn't like that with us. We have such a solid group of friends that it was kind of a shared decision.
